阅读理解Inbringingupchildreneveryparentwatcheseagerlythechild’sacquisition(学会)ofeachnewskill－thefirstspokenwordsthefirstindependentstepsorthebeginningofreadin

　　阅读理解

　　Inbringingupchildreneveryparentwatcheseagerlythechild’sacquisition(学会)ofeachnewskill－thefirstspokenwordsthefirstindependentstepsorthebeginningofreadingandwriting．Itiscommonthatparentshurrythechildbeyondhisnaturallearningratebutthiscansetupdangerousfeelingsoffailureandstatesofworryinthechild．Thismighthappenatanystage．Ababymightbeforcedtouseatoilettooearlyandayoungchildmightbeencouragedtolearntoreadbeforeheknowsthemeaningofthewordshereads．Ontheotherhandthoughifachildisleftalonetoomuchorwithoutanylearningopportunitiesheloseshisnaturalenthusiasm(热情)forlifeandhisdesiretofindoutnewthingsforhimself．

　　Parentsvarygreatlyintheirdegreeofstrictnesstowardstheirchildren．Somemaybeespeciallystrictinmoneymatters;othersaresevereovertimeofcominghomeatnightorpunctuality(准时)formeals．Ingeneralthecontrolsimposed(强加的)representtheneedsoftheparentsandthevaluesofthecommunity(社区)asmuchasthechild’sownhappiness．

　　Asregardsthedevelopmentofmoralstandardsinthegrowingchildconsistencyisveryimportantinparentalteaching．Toforbidathingonedayandexcuseitthenextisnofoundationformorality．Alsoparentsshouldrealizethat“exampleisbetterthanprecept”．Iftheyarenotsincereanddonotpracticewhattheypreach(说教)theirchildrenmaygrowconfusedandemotionallyinsecurewhentheygrowoldenoughtothinkforthemselvesandrealizetheyhavebeentosomeextentfooled．

　　Asuddenawarenessofamarkeddifferencebetweentheirparents’principlesandtheirmoralscanbeadangerousdisappointment．

　　(1)

　　Eagerlywatchingthechild’sacquisitionofnewskills________．

　　[]A．

　　shouldbeavoided

　　B．

　　isuniversalamongparents

　　C．

　　setsupdangerousstates