Societyiscomposedofdifferentpeople,differentpeopleformedapoliticalarena,collegestudentsmeetthesocialneedsofaprocessnormallytakestwoyearsolderthanthreeyears.Howtoadapttosociety?Myadviceistodofivethings:
First,inanycasetolearntoshowweakness.
Weaknessisthatallnewtoppriorityinthenewenvironment.Nomatterhowstrongyouareabletoadapttosocietyshouldbeasoftlanding,sosignofweaknesstogethelpfromothers,sothatassoonaspossibletoadapttotheirnewenvironment,theyarenotfinallyinsight.
Second,inanycasetobecastasideanddoeverythingathand.
Postures,headhandleeverythingtodo100points,evenifitmadefurthersmall,low,donotdotoomuch,notgrandiose.Allthelow,vulgarthingsalwayspointtothegreatgoal.
Third,inanycase,wemustlearntocontrolemotions.
Negativeemotions,particularlynegativeemotionsiseasytohurt,topeacefulcoexistence,then,thekeyistocontroltheemotions.
Fourth,inanycase,keepreading.
Booksaretheladderyouprogress,whetheritisusefuloruseless,tobewell-readofbooks,havethehabitofreading,soastoavoidthespiritualworldofthefault,tolinkingtherelationshipbetweenschoolsandsociety.
Fifth,inanycase,startsaving.
Regardlessofincome,aunitof100yuanpermonthtosave,todevelopahabitofsavingsisnot"money",butalife.
Youthinktheworldisnotsobeautiful,isnotasbadasyouthink,sobeconfident,strong,hard,aggressive,andonlymaintainsuchaspirit,toseekthefuture.