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　　Youryoungestsonordaughterhasjustgraduatedfromhighschoolandsoonheorshewilltradehisorherbedroominyourhomeforacollegeresidencehall.You’restartingtoworryaboutthecomingsilenceinyourhomeandarewondering

　　Youryoungestsonordaughterhasjustgraduatedfromhighschoolandsoonheorshewilltradehisorherbedroominyourhomeforacollegeresidencehall.You’restartingtoworryaboutthecomingsilenceinyourhomeandarewonderinghowyouwillfillthehoursthatyoupreviouslyspentwithyoursonordaughterattendinghisorherschoolandsportingevents.

　　Takeheart—theemptynest“isoftenworseinanticipation(预料)thaninday-to-daypractice”sayspsychologistBertHayslipJr.

　　Hayslipwhohasstudiedretirementadjustment(调整)andotheragingproblemssuchasagingsleeplessnessformanyyearspointsoutthatmoreoftenthannotchildrenwholeavedonotcompletelycutoffcontactwiththeirparents.Headvisesparentstothinkofitasaseriesoflifeeventsinsteadofasuddenchange.Healsosaysanemptynestcancausebiggerproblemstosurface“ifacouplehasn’tlookedaftertheirmarriagewhileraisingtheirchildren”.AccordingtoHayslipsomecouplesmayfindtheynolongerhaveanythingincommononcethechildrenareoutofthehouse.

　　Thinkingofanemptynestasthelossofchildrenmakestheadjustmentmoredifficult.“Withtheempty-nestsyndrome(综合症)parentsactuallyneedtodealwiththelossoftheparentingcontroloverchildrennotwithhavingreallylosttheirchildren”Hayslipsays.“Theyjusthavetofindanewwaytogetalongwiththeirchildren.”

　　“Relatingtotheircollege-agechildreninthisnewwaywillcomeeasilytoparentsasthemonthspass.Aswithmanythingsthepassageoftimehealsthepainofloss”Hayslipsays.

　　小题1:Whatdoesthe“emptynest”mean?A．Children’scuttingoffcontactwiththeirparents.B．Children’snotlikingspendingtimewiththeirparents.C．Children’sgrowingupandleavinghome.D．Children’snotacceptingparents’careandlove.小题2:Whatdoestheunderlinedword“it”inthethirdparagraphreferto?A．Retirementadjustment.B．Agingproblem.C．Sleeplessness.D．Therealityofemptynest.小题3:Whydomanyparentsfindithardtoadjusttotheempty-nestlife？A．Becausetheythinktheyhaveactuallylostth

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　　小题1:C小题2:D小题3:A小题4:B

　　分析：

　　当孩子高中毕业，搬到大学宿舍的时候，你有没有一种失落感，并且开始担心如何去面对家里即将来临的沉寂，空旷呢？你是不是担心如何去填充那些以前和孩子们在一起的时间呢？在本文中作者就此现象进行了深入的剖析，并且指出了家长应如何摆脱这种失落感。小题1:C词义猜测题。文章第一段提出了孩子们升入大学，从家里搬出去这一情况，然后在下文中就孩子离开家这种情况展开讲述，由此推断emptynest指的是孩子长大后离开家，从而家就像没了小鸟的巢穴一样，所以答案选C。小题2:D词义猜测题。根据上文childrenwholeavedonotcompletelycutoffcontactwiththeirparents.和下文Healsosaysanemptynestcancausebiggerproblems可知作者一直在讲述孩子离开家后家长会出现的一些不适应情况，由此推测it指的是空巢问题，所以D选项正确。小题3:A细节理解题。根据文章倒数第二段Thinkingofanemptynestasthelossofchildrenmakestheadjustmentmoredifficult.可知如果把孩子搬离家去外面居住看作是失去孩子的话，人们会很难去适应这种空巢生活，故A选项正确。小题4:B细节理解题。由文章倒数第二段parentsactuallyneedtodealwiththelossoftheparentingcontroloverchildren可知Hayslip认为在空巢现象中家长失去的仅仅是家长对子女的心理控制感，故答案选B。