TheShadowofRomanceSeekingontheCampus"

　　Anystudentwhoseeksromanceonthecampusislikeadogchasingitstailwho,whenhecapturesit,doesnotknowwhatelsetodobuttocontinuechasingit.Thecrueltyofromanceonthecampusisthatitoftenleadssuchseekerstoreapnothingbutregretfromit.

　　Ontheonehand,theconquestofcampusromanceisafar-from-ripefruitatbest,andmanyendupacademicallyifnotemotionallybankrupt.

　　Ontheother,thosewhorunintoanidealromancearehard-pressedtosustaintheircollegelifeasever.Whentheybecomeappealedtoeachother,forexample,theirschoolworkbeginstoshowalackofcontinuityinitsappealanditbecomesdifficulttofocusasmuchoftheirmindsonlessonsasbefore.Somestudentswhodoattempttoenrichtheircampuslifebyhuntingforromancefromtimetotimerunasignificantriskofdrowninginit,whereasotherswhoareforcedtostayawayfromithavetogiveupthefreedomtogetonwellwithoppositesexes.Oddlyenough,thegreatestwinnersarethosewho,despitetemptationaround,remaintruetotheirquestforknowledge,becausetheirhungerforknowledgehasmotivatedthemtoworkevenhardertoreachnewpeaksofexcellence.Formanyotherstudents,however,romanceseekingistheendoftheircollegelife,notthebeginning.

　　“Itishightimetowakeuptowhatyoucomeherefor!”ismyadvicetothosewhoblindlyseekromanceonthecampus.Butalas,thosewhostoptorealizeitoftenfindittoolatetorelivethegoldenperiodfromtheverybeginning.Soinsteadoftryingsohardtoseekromance,trytobehappywithwhatyoureapfrombooksorok吗还行吧