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  【阅读理解Whyaresomanypeoplesoafraidoffailure?Quitesimplybecausenoonetellsushowtofailsothatfailurebecomesanexperiencethatwillleadtogrowth.Weforgetthatfailureispartofthehumanconditionandt】

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  Whyaresomanypeoplesoafraidoffailure?Quitesimplybecausenoonetellsushowto

  failso that failurebecomesanexperiencethatwillleadtogrowth.Weforgetthatfailureispart

  ofthe human conditionandthateverypersonhadtherighttofail.

  Mostparentsworkhardatpreventingfailureorprotectingtheirchildrenfromtheknowledge

  that theyhavefailed.Onewayistolowerstandards.Amotherdescribesherchild'shastilymade

  table as"perfect"eventhoughitdoesn'tstandstill.Anotherwayistoshiftblame.IfJohnfails

  science his teacherisunfairorstupid.

  Thetroublewithfailure-preventiondevicesisthattheyleaveachildunequippedforlifeinthe

  real world.Theyoungneedtolearnthatnoonecanbebestateverything.Noonecanwinallthe

  time andthatit'spossibletoenjoyagameevenwhenyoudon'twin.Achildwho'snotinvitedtoa

  birthdaypartywhodoesn'tmakethehonorlistonthebaseballteamfeelsterrible

  ofcoursebut parentsshouldnotofferaquickconsolationprize(安慰奖)orsay"It

  doesn'tmatter."Because itdoes. Theyoungshouldbeallowedtoexperiencedisappointmentand

  behelpedtomasterit.

  Failureisneverpleasurable.Ithurtsgrown-upsandchildrenalike.Butitcanmakea

  positive contributiontoyourlifeonceyoulearntouseit.Steponeistoask"whydidIfail?"

  Don'tblame someoneelse.Askyourselfwhatyoudidwronghowyoucanimprove.If

  someoneelsecanhelp don'tbeshyaboutinquiring.

  Successwhichencouragesrepetitionofoldbehaviorisnotnearlyasgoodateacheras

  failure. Youcanlearnfromabadpartyhowtogiveasecondonefromanill-chosenfirsthouse

  whatto lookforinasecond.Evenafailurethatseemsdefinitivecanprompt(激起)freshthinking

  achange ofdirection.After12yearsofstudyingballetafriendofmineauditioned(面试)fora

  professional company.Shewasturneddown."wouldfurthertraininghelp?"sheasked.Theballet

  mastershook hishead."Youwillneverbeadancer"hesaid"youhaven'tthebodyforit."

  Insuchcasesthewaytousef

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