Whatyoumakeofyourlifeisuptoyou!

　　Oftenheardpeoplecomplainabout,whynotmyface,whysobadweathertoday,whydoIliveinsuchapoorfamily,whyGodtoldme......whyshouldwecomplainaboutitcomplainedthatit?Lifewasnotallthebest,lifewasnotperfect,onthecontrary,theupsanddowns,istheroutineAsthesayinggoesawhitehead;laughlessdecade.Donotcomplain,everyone'slifewillnotbeeasy,butpreciselybecauseofthesetwistsandturnsinfoldingwave,acquiredacolorfullife.

　　Ifwecanoftenlookattheissuefromanotherangle,youmighteasilyfindthemselvesstillveryexcitinglife.Youcannotchangetheface,smilewhydonotyouthinkaboutindulgence;youcannotchangetheweather,whydonotyouchangethemood.Asthesayinggoes:afterthestorm.Thesameistrueoflife,aftertrainingcanoftenmakelifewonderful.

　　China,awritercametotheUnitedStates,hesawafloweroftheoldladyisalwaysveryhappy,verystrange.Hewouldpickaflowerasked:"Whyareyoualwayssohappy?"Repliedtheoldladytomakethewriterstandinamazement."Jesuswascrucifiedistheworld'sdarkestday,threedayslatertoEaster.Allthetroubletowaitforthreedaysaslongastherightnottovanishintothinair?"Writerfortheoldladyansweredandmovedanoldladycouldlookatthisfreeandeasylife,couldseesothoroughlytolife.Kinginventors-Edisonfilamentdoinordertofindthebestmaterialshavebeendonea1000experimentmanytimesandfailed.Havealaughathisneighbor:"Doyouhowtodo1000experimentshavefailedmanytimes?"Edisonsaid:"Iamnotfoundmorethan1000kindsofinappropriatematerialfilamentsoit?"Edisonfailedtolookatfromanotherangle,amquitesurethatitcanbethemostsuitablematerials,ispreciselybecauseofthisself-confidence,theyareabletomakeunremittingefforts,finallysuccessful.

　　Peopletolovelife,lovelife,tohaveself-confidence,itisnecessarytomakeunremittingeffortstowardsthetarget,likeAiQingsaid,"Evenifweareacandle,waxshouldbedrybeforethetorchashestears;eventhoughweareamatchshouldbeatthecrucialmomentthereisarayoflight",ifso,willthemeaningofourlives,ourliveswillbeabletoissueastrangeglory.Finally,Ihadtoremindyouthatinthefaceofsetbacks,donotcomplainaboutitcomplainedthattheold,andtolearnhowtotransformtheissueofperspective,sothatlifeisnotsusceptibleto"rain"byknockout.