“L”代表Listen(倾听),爱就是要无条件无偏见地倾听对方的要求,并且予以协助.

　　LstandsforListen.Loveisgivingunconditionally,listeningtoyourpartnerwithoutprejudiceandhelpinghimorher.

　　“O”代表Obligate(感恩),爱需要不断的感恩,付出更多的爱,灌溉爱的禾苗.

　　OstandsforObligate.Loveneedsobligation,whichmeanspayingoutmoreandirragatingtheyoungplantoflove.

　　“V”代表Valued(尊重),爱就是展现你的尊重,表达体贴,真诚的鼓励,发自内心的赞美.

　　VstandsforValued.Loveistoshowyourrespect,toexpressaffection,toencouragepure-heartedlyandtopraisesincerely.

　　“E”代表Excuse(宽恕),爱就是仁慈的对待,宽恕对方的缺点和错误,接受对方的全部

　　EstandsforExcuse.Loveistobekind,toforgiveyourpartner'sfaultsandmistakesandtoaccepthimorherentirely.