HiTom,
ThisisLiHua,howyoudoing?Ireallyhopethateverything'sfinewithyou.Thanksfortheemail,Ireceiveditlastweek.I'msorrytohearthatyou'renotinagoodstateoflearning.
Herearesometipsmaybringyoubacktoabettercondition.Iusedtotakeitastheself-motivatedapproach.Youmayuseanappropriatewaytodothefollowing:-
1.Spendfifteenminutestodoyourfavouriteactivity,e.g.listeningtomusic,readingstorybooks,thatwillhelpustoreleasetensionasstudyingcanbeveryboring.
2.Carryapenandpaperwithyouwhenyou'reonthego.Writedownatleastonethingthatmakeyoufeelproudofit.That'stheimportantthingthatIusetomotivatemyself.I'llstickthosepaperinfrontofmytable,wheneverIfeeldown,I'lltakealookatthosenotetomakemyselffeebetterandofcoursetogainconfidencefromit,atleastIknowthatIhavesomethingthataresomuchbetterthanothers.
3Stopthenegativethinkingandfocusonsolvingthoselearningproblems.asallofusknowthat"Anegativethinkercanneverbesuccessful“,insteadofbeingsonegativetowardsourlive,whydon'twelivehappilyandspendourtimeonsomethingwhichisconstructive.So,let'sbepositiveandoptimistic.
Ihopetheabove-mentionedwillsomehowhelpyouinyourstudy,asIwasfacingthesameproblemlikeyou,buteventuallyI'vesailedthroughthedifficultiesandIreallyhopethatyoumaydothesameandachieveabetterresultinyourexam.
TakegoodcareandIamlookingforwardtohearingfromyouagian.
WarmestRegards,
LiHua