“thevitality”isapersonverynormalemotiondivulgestheway,isslightlyunpleasanttothelifetrivialmatters,bigenoughtopoursintothetotalinvolvementtheenterprisetheashtoflythesmokeinsnappingfingerstoextinguish,allthese,havethepossibilitytocausethepersonvitality.“生气”是一个人非常正常的情感宣泄方式,小到生活琐事的不如意,大到倾注全身心的事业在弹指间灰飞烟灭,这一切,都有可能使人生气.Nowawordwhichmentionsiscalledfrequently“thecoldtreatment”,probablyisliftsaheavyweightasiflight,letsthelitiganttothequestionprocessingfromtheshallowtothedeep,thestep-by-stepapproach,seemsabrookbrookseeksatrailtoembarkfirst,slowlywidens,thedeepening,andeventheaffluxbecomesJianghai.Inthelifeneeds“thecoldtreatment”truly,isunruffledwhateverhappensisnothot-tempered,suppressesoneselfinnermostfeelingstobegoing“eruption'svolcano”,treatsguoleyiduanshijian,perhapsanythinghasbecome.现在经常被提及的一个词叫“冷处理”,大概就是举重若轻,让当事人对问题的处理由浅入深,逐步解决,好似一涓溪流先寻一条小径出发,慢慢地加宽、加深,乃至汇流成江海.生活中确实需要“冷处理”,遇事不慌不躁,压制住自己内心将要“喷发的火山”,待过了一段时间,也许什么都成为了过去.