Youmaybesurprisedtosee“makingsurechildrenneversuffer”asamistake.Thefollowingmayhelpyouunderstandhowrescuingchildrenfromallsufferingweakness.Alittleboyfeltsorryforabutterflystrugglingto
Youmaybesurprisedtosee“makingsurechildrenneversuffer”asamistake.Thefollowingmayhelpyouunderstandhowrescuingchildrenfromallsufferingweakness.
Alittleboyfeltsorryforabutterflystrugglingtofromitschrysalis.Hedecidedtothebutterfly.Sohepeeledthechrysalisopenforthebutterfly.Thelittleboywassotowatchthebutterflyspreaditswingsandflyoffintothesky.Thenhewashorrifiedhewatchedthebutterflyfalltothegroundanddiebecauseitdidnothavethemuscletokeepflying.Infactthebutterfly’sstruggletothechrysalishelpsthebutterflybecomestronger.
Likethelittleboytoooftenwanttoprotecttheirchildrenfromstruggleintheoflove.Theydon’trealizethattheirchildrenneedtostruggletoexperiencetodealwithdisappointmentandtosolvetheirownproblems.Onlyinthiswaycanchildrentheiremotionalstrengthbecomeanddeveloptheskillsnecessaryfortheevenbiggerstrugglestheywillmeetthroughouttheirlives.Childrenexperiencingsufferingscantheupsanddownsoflife.
Howeveritisn’thelpfuleitherinthiscasewhenparentslectures(训斥)blameandshametowhatthechildisexperiencing.Motherstosay“Stopcryingandactinglikeaspoiledboy.Youcan’talwaysgetwhatyouwant.”Thesewordsshouldbeavoided.
Insteadparentscanofferlovingsupport.Youcansay“Don’tlose.Bebrave!Youwillsucceedifyoutryagain.”Thencomesthetoughpart—noanolectures.Simplyallowhimtodiscoverthathecangetoverhisdisappointmentandwhathecandotogetwhathewantsinthefuture.
1.A.storyB.proverbC.sayingD.Experiment
2.A.damagesB.burnsC.createsD.experiences
3.A.hearB.sufferC.dateD.emerge
4.A.killB.feedC.helpD.rescue
5.A.excitedB.movedC.puzzledD.depressed
6.A.asB.sinceC.beforeD.until
7.A.powerB.energyC.strengthD.force
8.A.comeupB.doawaywithC.getalongwithD.breakawayfromwith
9.A.teachersB.parentsC.relativesD.friends
10.A.caseB.chargeC.nameD.course
11.A.friendshipsB.scholarshipsC.relationshipsD.hardships
12.A.strengthenB.requireC.getD.achieve
13.A.warm-heartedB.strong-willedC.absent-mindD

