1.IfIamaparent,Iwill.

　　Firstofall,Iwilltrustmychildren,letthemknowIlovethem,letthemknowthatIcareaboutthemverymuch,letthemfeelwarmandsafety.

　　Secondly,Iwillmakeconversationswithchildrenoften.Acturally,

　　there'snogenarationgapbetweenparentsandchildren,ifyoualwaysexchangeyouropionwithyourchildren.

　　Third,ifmychildernwanttokeephisorherownsecrets,wanttodosomethinganddon'twanttotellme(Igesseverychildrenwanttodothat),ifthatthingdoesn'tmakeaseriousmistake(likebreakthelaw),Iwillallowthemtodoeveniftheywillfail--atleastit'sagoodexperienceforthem.

　　Finaly,sometimesbeinglikeakid,haveachildlike,imaginewhatifyouareachild,thenyouwillunderstandyourchildren.

　　It'snotdifficult,isn'tthat?

　　2.My14thbirthday

　　Whenmy14thbirthdaycame,Ifeltnothappyanyway.Becausemyparentsdidn'tpayanyattentiontoit.Ithoughttheyweretoobusytoremembermybirthday.

　　Onthenightofthatday,Igotbackhomeandfoundnobody.Ihadtodosupperformyself.Mytearsslippedfrommyeyes.IfeltlonelyandsadasifIwasabondonedbythewholeworld.Whytheyweresobusyallday?Theydidn'tcaremeatall!

　　WhenIfinishedmyhomework,myparentscameback.Isaidnothingbutwenttomybed.IclosedmyeyesbutinfactIcouldn'tfallasleep.

　　ThenIheardmymothercameinandsatbesideme.

　　"I'msorrybaby."shesaidinalowandtiringvoice,"Iknowwhyyouaresounhappy.SometimesIthinkI'mnotagoodmother,butyoukonw,bothIandyourfaterarebusythesedays.Wealwayswanttomakemoremoney.'causeyouwillgototheseniorhighschoolnextyear.Youneedmoremoneyforthefurthereducation..."

　　Iopenedmyeyes,andfoundtearsshoneinmymother'seyes.Iforgavethematonce.

　　Sometimes,yourparentswillforgetyourimportantdays,butnowIkonwthatdoesn'tmeantheydon'loveyou.