Mycollegelife

　　Whatcanyoudotomakeyourcollegelifecolorful?describetheideallifeincollege.

　　WhenIwasinhighschool,Ihaddreamtofhavingawonderfullifeincollege.IsaidtomyselfthatIwoulddolotsofinterestingthingstomakethenextfewyearsfilledwithhappiness.Ievenmakeadetailedplan.butwhenIenteredcollegeIfounditquitedifferentfromwhatIthoughtbefore,Ifeltalittledepressed.AsIdon’tknowwhattodoafterclass.infact,wehavefarlesslessonsthanwehadinhighschool;.So,whatshouldIdointhelongsparetime.Ididn’tknow,soIspentmuchofmytimereading,youknow,somenovels,but,dayafterday,Ibegantofeelboringonlytoread.Willthenextfouryearsbethesame?Iwondered.ifso,Iwillbecrazy,Fouryearshavetoomuchsparetime,fouryearsreadingnovels,fouryearsfeeldepressed,Icouldn’tthinkmoreaboutit.Soafteraperiodofseveralweeks,Istartedtomakeaplanformycollegelife,inordertomakeitcolorfulandvaluable.Firstofall,Ishouldgetupearlyinthemorningratherthansleeplate,evenontheweekends,thenIcandosomeexercisesasbodybuilding.Second,Ishouldgotothelibrary,ofcourse,notjustfornovels,otherkindsofbookslikemaths,Englishareincluded.ifIstillhavesomesparetie,Iwillfindapart-timejob.inthisway,Icouldgainsomemoneyandwhatisthemostimportant,experience,Icanknowmoreabouttherealworld.

　　Myuniversitylife

　　Communicationbetweenboysandgirls

　　Beforebeingadmittedtoauniversity,itwasaproblemformetocommunicatetoagirlfreely.Beingusedtokeepsilent,Ipreferthegirltostartatalkatfirst.Usually,takingthefirststepwillfillmyheartwithshynessandevencausemyheartbeatlikeabagofworms.

　　Duringthedayspreparingforthefinalexams,IwassurprisedtoreceiveamailfromoneofmyfemaleclassmateswhomIhardlytalkedto.Inthemail,sheaskedmeforsomehelpinmathematicproblems.Withnodoubt,Iwasinclinedtotrymybesttogiveahand,soIfixedadateandpromisedtocome.

　　Justastheproverbsays：itisthefirststepthatcoststroublesome.Iwasembarrassedwhenenteringtheclassroomwithnowordstosay.Atthemoment,airaroundseemedtobefrozen.Later,Iencouragedmyselftosqueezedoutsomewordsandthegirlsmiledandansweredinasweetvoice.Maybe,shynessshouldnotbetheobstaclethatpreventusfromcommunicatingfreely.Littlebylittle,Ifeltateaseandwediscussedtheproblems,atthesametime,wetalkedaboutourhighschoollifeinhighspirits.

　　Everythingisbetterthanwehaveexpectedonlywhenwetakethefirststeppositively.Donotbeshy,justtry!