1Nowadays,theproblemsofgenerationgapbecomemoreandmoreserious.Thepoorrelationshipbetweenparentsandtheirchildrenisverycommon.Aretheseproblemscausedbythebusyparents?Or,dotheharshfamilyrulesaffecttherelationshipofparentsandchildren?

　　Firstly,inmostofthefamiliesinChinabothoftheparentshavetogooutforworkinordertoearnmoremoneytoprovidebetterenvironmentfortheirlovelychildren.Unfortunately,thiscausestherarecommunicationbetweenthemandtheftchildren,sincetheseparentsalwaystakerestduringleisuretime.Theseparentsandchildrencannotknowdeeplyabouteachotherandfrictionwillappear.Secondly,parentswhoasktheirchildrentobeabsolutelyobedientisalsooneofthegravecausesofthegenerationgapbetweenthem!Theydonottrytocommunicatewiththeirchildrenastheirequals.Thus,misinterpretationofthemmayeasilyoccur.

　　Tosolvetheseproblems,thebusyparentsshouldsacrificetheirsparetimetocommunicatewiththeirchildrenactivelyandfriendlytoimprovetheirrelation.Atthesametime,theycanalsoobservetheirchildren'sbehavioratthesametimeinordertounderstandheirchildren'spersonalityasitcanreducethequarrelbetweenthem.Besidesthat,theparentsshouldtrytogiveuptheirabsolutepowerinfamilysoaslomaketheirchildrenfeelfreetochatwiththem.

　　2GenerationgapGenerationgapreferstothedistanceandcontradiction(矛盾)betweentheoldandtheyouth.It’sacommon(常见的)phenomenon(现象)thatexitseverywhereintheworldandinfluencesboththeoldandtheyouth.Generallyspeaking,generationgapresultsindifferentunderstandingandappreciationofthegreatandconstantchangesoftheworld,differentreactiontonewthings,anddifferentattitudestotradition(传统)principles(原则)andbeliefs.Therefore,wemaysaywheretherearetheoldandtheyouth;thereisthegenerationgap.Generationgapisnatural,butveryinfluential(有影响的).Ifwecannotdealwithitappropriately(适当地),thegapwillbegreaterandgreaterandconsequently(结果)affecttheworkandtherelationbetweentheoldandtheyoung.