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　　【BreakingtheCodeOneschoolnightthismonthIwalkedquietlyuptoAlexandermy15-year-oldsonandtouchedhischeekgentlyinamannerIhopedwouldseemcasual.Ayearagohewouldhaveignoredthisdisturbancebutnowhereactedimpatientl】

　　 BreakingtheCodeOneschoolnightthismonthIwalkedquietlyuptoAlexandermy15-year-oldsonandtouchedhischeekgentlyinamannerIhopedwouldseemcasual.Ayearagohewouldhaveignoredthisdisturbancebutnowhereactedimpatientlyandleanedbacktohiscomputerscreen.

　　 Imadeamistake：breakingintomyteenager'spersonalspace."Theaverageteenagerhasprettystrongfeelingsabouthisprivacy"LaraFoxandherfriendHilaryFrankeltoldme.Ms.FrankelandMs.Foxboth17aretheauthorsofBreakingtheCodeanewbookthatseekstobridgethegenerationaldividebetweenparentsandadolescents.Itisbeingpromotedbyitspublisherasthefirstselfhelpguidebyteenagersfortheirparentsakindof"KidsArefromMarsParentsArefromVenus'1thatexplainsthelanguageandactionsofteenagers.Thegirlsdealtwithissuesincludinghangingoutlatemoneyschoolpressuressmokingetc.

　　 PersonallyIwelcometheiropinions.Themostcommonmissteps(失策)ininteractingwithteenagersarisefromthewarbetweenparentsexercisingtheirrightstoknowwhatgoesonundertheirroofandteenagersfirmlyguardingtheirprivacy.Teenagerscanbequicktointerprettheirparents'remarksandrespondwithangerthatmaskstheirvulnerability(脆弱).Ms.Foxsaid"Whatwewantaboveallisyourapproval.Don'tforgetnomatterhowmuchweactasifwedon'tcarewhatyousaywebelievethethingsyousayaboutus."

　　 NancyaNewYorkchildraisingexpertsaidshedidn'tagreewitheverythingtheauthorssuggestedbutfoundtheirargumentsreasonable."Whenyourkidsaresaying'Youdon'tgetitandyouneverwill，therearelotsofwaystorespondsothattheywilllistenandthatiswhatthewriterspointout."

　　 "Myparentshelpedmeseethat”Ms.Foxtoldme"eventhoughtheyusedtostayoutlateandridetheirbicyclestoschooltimeshavechangedandthewayparentseducatechildrenisdifferent.Thesedaysthereisamajorfearfactorinbringingupkids.Parentsworryabouttheirchildcrossingthestreet."Thewriterssaidtheyhopedsimplytothrowlightonteenagethinking.

　　( )1.Whydoestheauthormentionthebook"KidsArefromMarsParentsArefrom'Venus17？

　　 A.Itisoneofthebestsellers.

　　 B.Itisalsowrittenbythetwogirls.

　　 C.Thetwobooksh

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　　代沟问题引起越来越多人的关注，该文从两本关于代沟的新书人手谈到了人们对于代沟的看法，指出了在养育孩子的过程中产生代沟的因素。

　　1.C细节理解题。由文中第二段可知，第一本书BreakingtheCode寻求弥合父母与青少年之间的代沟，第二本书KidsArefromMarsParentsArefromVenus探讨外出晚归、金钱、学校压力以及抽烟等青少年问题。作者以两本书为例，目的是解释青少年的行为，给父母提供与孩子相处的自助指南。故答案为C项。

　　2.A推理判断题。由前文可知，孩子面对家长的评论，以愤怒做出回应，而这种愤怒掩饰了他们内心的脆弱。"Youdon'tgetitandyouneverwill"实则揭示了孩子脆弱的内心，他们不愿承认自己的软弱，故答案为A项。B项青少年认为家长永远不会理解他们过于绝对，C项父母没必要进入孩子的世界，D项即使父母努力代沟也不可能缩短，均不符合原文的描述

　　3.C推理判断题。由最后一段可知，父母担心孩子过马路，故答案为C项。

　　A项青少年应保护自己的隐私，与题干毫无关联。

　　B项南希完全同意两个女孩的观点，与原文描述有误。

　　D项两个女孩得到了公众的支持，该选项在原文中没有提及。

　　4.C推理判断题。由第三段可知，如今的青少年用愤怒掩盖内心的脆弱，即使表面上装得不在乎父母的话，实际上他们相信父母所说的事。由此判断，答案为C项sensitive敏感的。

　　A项independent独立的，B项intelligent聪明的，D项inconsiderate不体谅别人的，均不符合题意。