Parentsshouldstopblamingthemselvesbecausethere’snotalottheycandoaboutit.Imeantheteenagerproblem.Whateveryoudoorhoweveryouchoosetodealwithitatcertaintimesawonderfulreasonableandhelpfulchildwillturn

　　Parentsshouldstopblamingthemselvesbecausethere’snotalottheycandoaboutit.Imeantheteenagerproblem.Whateveryoudoorhoweveryouchoosetodealwithitatcertaintimesawonderfulreasonableandhelpfulchildwillturnintoaterribleanimal.

　　I’veseenfriendsdealwithitinallkindsofdifferentways.Onestrictmotherinsistedthathersonrightfromachildshouldstandupwheneveranyoneenteredtheroomopendoorsandshakehandslikeagentleman.IsawhimlastweekwhenIcalledround.Sprawlinghimself(懒散地躺)onthesofainfulllengthhemadenoattempttoturnofftheloudTVhewaswatchingasIwalkedinandhisgreetingwasnomorethanaquickglanceatme.Hismotherwasashamed.“Idon'tknowwhattodowithhimthesedays”shesaid.“He’sforgottenallthemannerswetaughthim.”

　　Hehasn’tforgottenthem.He’sjustdecidedthathe’snotgoingtousethem.Sheconfessed(坦白)thatshewouldliketocomeupbehindhimandthrowhimdownfromthesofaontothefloor.

　　Anothergoodfriendofminelethertwodaughtersclimballoverthefurniturereachacrossthetablestareatmeandsay“Idon’tlikeyourdress;it’sugly.”Oneofthedaughtershasrecentlybeendrivenoutofschool.Theotherhaslefthome.

　　“Wheredidwegowrong?”herparentsarenowverysad.Probablynowheremuch.Atleastnomorethantherestofthatunfortunateraceparents.

　　【小题1】Thistextismostprobablywrittenby______.

　　A．adoctorformentalhealthproblemsB．aheadmasterofamiddleschoolC．aparentwithteenagechildrenD．aspecialistinteenagerstudies【小题2】Theunderlinedword“it”inthesecondparagraphrefersto______.A．theadvicethatparentswanttheirchildrentofollowB．thechangefromgoodtobadthat’sseeninachildC．theopinionthatachildhasofhisparentsD．thewaythatparentsoftenblamethemselves【小题3】Fromthesecondexamplewecaninferthattheparentsofthetwodaughters______.A．paynoattentiontothemB．feelhelplesstodomuchaboutthemC．havecometohatethemD．