ForaslongasIcanrememberIhavebeenverybadatarguingwithpeople.AssoonassomeonedisagreeswithmeIgetangrybecauseIfeelattackedliketheotherpersonisouttoshowthatIamwrong.AndforsomereasonIhate

　　ForaslongasIcanrememberIhavebeenverybadatarguingwithpeople.AssoonassomeonedisagreeswithmeIgetangrybecauseIfeelattackedliketheotherpersonisouttoshowthatIamwrong.AndforsomereasonIhatebeingwrong!SomyimmediatereactionistogetverydefensiveIraisemyvoiceandIendupsayingsomethingIlaterregret.Needlesstosaythewholethingendswithmebeatingmyselfupandtheotherpersonfeelingalienated(疏远)fromme.ThisbothersmeespeciallybecausemymotherdoestheexactsamethingandIhateit!

　　IhavenoticedthistendencyinmeforalongtimenowbutIhaveneverbeenabletostop.Ididsomeangermanagementworkwithatherapist(治疗专家)awhileagobutbecauseImovedandturnedtoanadvisoratschoolwhocannotseemeregularlyIhavenotbeenabletocontinuethisimportantwork.Theytellyoutostopandcountto10controlyourbreathingcalmyourselfdownbeforeyoutalk.Butthat'sthewholeproblemIcouldneverthinkofstoppingmyselfuntilitwastoolate!ThehurtfulthingshadalreadycomeoutofmymouthandIwasstuckpickingupthepieces.

　　Rightnowtheproblemisurgentbecausemyrelationshipwithawonderfulboyfriendisindangerbecauseofmyinsecurityandhatredofbeingwrong.HeisclosinghimselfofftomebecauseIhavehurthimandnodoubtIamnolongerattractiveasawomanwithnoconfidenceinherselfandabadtemper.HowdoIstopruiningmyrelationshipsandhatingmyself?HowdoIstophatingbeingwrong?

　　1.Inwhatsituationwillthewritergetangryeasily?

　　A.Whenshehasargumentwithpeople.

　　B.Whenpeopledisagreewithher.

　　C.Whensheisattacked.

　　D.Whenshedoessomethingwrong.

　　2.Whatdoestheunderlinedpartinthefirstparagraphmean?

　　A.Mymotherdisagreeswithme.

　　B.Mymotheralienatesherselffromme.

　　C.Mymotherhasthesameproblemwithme.

　　D.Mymotherdoesthesamewrongtome.

　　3.Inthesecondparagraphwhatdoestheunderlinedword"tendency"referto?

　　A.Beingbadatarguingwithpeople.

　　B.Hatingbeingwrong.

　　C.Beinglosttoothers.

　　D.Hatingmymother.

　　4.Wecaninferfromthethirdparagraphthat

　　A.thewriterfeelshelplesswithherproblem