【Oneday,whenIwasworkingasapsychologist(心理学家)inEngland,ayoungboyshowedupinmyoffice.ItwasDavid.Hekeptwalkingupanddownrestlessly,hisfacepale,andhishandsshakingslightly.Hisheadteacherhadintroducedhim】
Oneday,whenIwasworkingasapsychologist(心理学家)inEngland,ayoungboyshowedupinmyoffice.ItwasDavid.Hekeptwalkingupanddownrestlessly,hisfacepale,andhishandsshakingslightly.Hisheadteacherhadintroducedhimtomebefore.“Thisboyhaslosthisfamily,”hewrote.“Heisunderstandablyverysadandrefusestotalktoothers,andI’mveryworriedabouthim.Canyouhelp?”
IlookedatDavidandshowedhimtoachair.HowcouldIhelphim?Thereareproblemswhichpsychologydoesn’thavetheanswerto,andwhichnowordscandescribe.Sometimesthebestthingonecandoistolistenopenlyandsilently.AndIwoulddointhisway.
Thefirsttwotimeswemet,Daviddidn’tsayaword.Hesatthere,onlylookinguptolookatthechildren’sdrawingsonthewallbehindme.Isuggestedweplayagameofchess.Henodded.AfterthatheplayedchesswithmeeveryWednesdayafternoon—incompletesilenceandwithoutlookingatme.It’snoteasytocheatinchess,butIadmitImadesureDavidwononceortwice.
Usually,hearrivedearlierthanagreed,tookthechessboardandpiecesfromtheshelfandbegansettingthemupbeforeIevengotachancetositdown.Itseemedasifheenjoyedmycompany.Butwhydidheneverlookatme?
“Perhapshesimplyneedssomeonetosharehispainwith,”Ithought.“PerhapshesensesthatIrespecthissuffering.”Somemonthslater,whenwewereplayingchess,helookedupatmesuddenly.
“It’syourturn,”hesaid.
Afterthatday,Davidstartedtalking.Hegotfriendsinschoolandjoinedabicycleclub.Hewrotetomeafewtimes,abouthisbikingwithsomefriends,andabouthisplantogetintouniversity.Nowhehadreallystartedtolivehisownlife.
MaybeIgaveDavidsomething.ButIalsolearnedthatone—withoutanywords—canreachouttoanotherperson.Allittakesisahug,ashouldertocryon,afriendlytouch,andanearthatlistens.
小题1:Whenhefirstmettheauthor,David_________. A.feltalittleexcitedB.walkedstubbornlyC.lookedalittlenervousD.showedupwithhisteacher小题2:Asapsychologist,theauthor__________.A.wasuncertainaboutpsychologyB.wasreadytolistentoDavid

