【HowtoLoveYourParentsEvenifyouthinkthatyourparentsaremean-spiritedattimeslovingyourparentsisanormalandfulfillingpartoflife．Youlovethemforthefactthattheycreatedyouraisedyouandareinpartasource】

　　HowtoLoveYourParents

　　Evenifyouthinkthatyourparentsaremean-spiritedattimeslovingyourparentsisanormalandfulfillingpartoflife．Youlovethemforthefactthattheycreatedyouraisedyouandareinpartasourceofwhoyouare.Herearesomewaystoloveyourparents．

　　___16___ Agentle"goodmorning"and"Iloveyou"willwarmacoldestheart．

　　Rememberthattheybroughtyouintothisworld．Withoutyourparentswemightstillwanderatanunknowncornerinanunknownworld．

　　Respectthemmoreandcherishthesemoments．Youcanusethesemomentstolearnfromthempreparingyourselfforwhenyou'reoffonyourown．It'sOKtogetangrybutangryactionsdon'thelpyouoryourparents． Actcalmlycooloffwritedownyourfeelingsortalktoafriend．___17____

　　Obeytheirrequests． Itwillmakeyourattitudebetterandearnyoumorerespectfromthem．Itmayseemlikeyouaregoingthroughhellwhenyoudon'tgetwhatyouwantoryouhavetoclean．Howeveryouhadbetterremembertheykeeparoofoveryourheadwhenit'scoldrainingsnowingortoohot．Understandthatparentsarehumanbeingsandmakemistakes．____18_____Sinceyoucanforgiveyourfriendswhynotforgiveyourparents?

　　Keepcompanywiththem．DothingswithyourparentslikewatchingTVorgo

　　somewherewiththem．____19_____ Listentotheiroldstoriesandlearnfromthem． Youwillfindtheyareyourteachersinthiswayoranother．

　　Somepeoplesimplymaynotbeabletolovetheirparents．__20___Seekhelpifyouarebeingabused（虐待）inanyway． Parentsdonothavearighttoharmyou．

　　A. Forgivenessisthekey．

　　B. Tellthemyoulovethemeverymorning．

　　C. Parentswillinturnexpresstheirlovetoyou．

　　D. Afterthisshareyourfeelingswithyourparents．

　　E. Anywayspendasmuchtimewiththemasyoucan．

　　F. Pleaserememberparentsareasimportantasfriends．111]

　　G. Therecanberealisticreasonsforthisfamilyviolenceforexample．